I’ve been thinking about how things don’t always turn out perfectly. Take this quilt for example… I mean, just look at it… there is nothing “perfect” about this quilt. The shapes are irregular, I ran out of one color and had to add others, those borders are unusual, the quilting a little wild… but in the end I’d have to say I LOVE it with all it’s imperfections! They are what gives the quilt character… a sort of personality if you will.

Now, this is a little hard to talk about so I’ll take this as gently as I can. This quilt is for a baby soon to be born into what anybody would classify as “less than ideal” circumstances. I thought I’d have a hard time with it… making this quilt that is. To know this baby is coming into this world without the absolutely “perfect” set up, could have been a problem for me as I pieced those seams or laid down those quilting lines. I was afraid this monkey-mind of mine would be filled with thoughts of worry and sadness. Turns out, I had no such problem. The quilt went together quickly… that is, once I got really into it. I LOVED every aspect of it… piecing, quilting, binding and signing. All of it joyful and soothing. In my head were thoughts of love and cheer for this tiny little baby soon to be born. My heart swelled as I recanted my own joys of having a newborn around. Once I got into it, I quickly realized that a baby, is a baby, is a baby. They are all good and deserving of as much love as we can give them.

As I attended the shower today I noticed it was much like all the others I’ve been to… silly games, food bulging from every counter, a round-tummied mama struggling to open gifts with cheerful ladies gathered around. Yes indeed, this baby will have many loving arms to be held in and an even larger community of people to watch over him… what’s not perfect about that?

The quilt, pictured here, is wrapped tootsie-roll style as I’ve come to wrap most of my baby quilts. The real gift however was the one I received. I realize now things don’t have to look perfect to be perfect.
In the end it always boils down to one simple thing… LOVE.
by robin
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