… I find myself noticing everyday things… planning a trip to this show this summer… dreaming of these dishes… and enjoying the warmth that summer brings. It’s nice to have them all home. I hope you too are having a pleasant Memorial Day.
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Monthly Archives: May 2010 In Hawaii, at this time of year, we have a way of celebrating the beauty of these islands… it’s called Lei Day. Traditionally, it falls on May 1st, but schools often stagger their celebrations to accommodate busy schedules. Our celebration was today and boy was it a beauty! The children were decked out in bright... by robin 3 comments 
June 5, 2010 - 11:47 am
What a great job you did on those costumes! I was thinking the last time I read your blog how wonderful it was that you left your job BEFORE all the major changes in your life. Leaves you with much more time to process them and to keep busy with loving things such as making these costumes for your daughter to enjoy with her classmates. 
May 29, 2010 - 3:29 am
What a great job you did on those costumes! I was thinking the last time I read your blog how wonderful it was that you left your job BEFORE all the major changes in your life. Leaves you with much more time to process them and to keep busy with loving things such as making these costumes for your daughter to enjoy with her classmates. 
May 28, 2010 - 4:56 pm
That picture of Shelby is beautiful! Happy!  Things are moving along for me… slowly. I really feel like I’m caught up in a time-warp, where people all around me are buzzing around with the excitement of the summer approaching, while I, little miss “black cloud” struggle to keep up. Earlier this week I put on a pair of shorts, my first for... by robin 13 comments 
June 5, 2010 - 6:20 pm
Just know that he can hear you… so keep on talking, thinking, wishing and wondering… and crying, as sad as it is it’s all good. You just have to go through it to get through it and it takes a long time. My heart hurts for you… 
June 2, 2010 - 3:14 pm
Like Terri already said, grief really is a process. A very individual process. Give in, let go, and trust that you will come out at the end. Do take care. 
May 30, 2010 - 6:46 pm
Like Terri already said, grief really is a process. A very individual process. Give in, let go, and trust that you will come out at the end. Do take care. 
May 29, 2010 - 11:27 am
Robin, my Dad died 12 years ago today, but I remember so well being where you are right now. Like most things, it is a process that plays itself out without direction. One day you will realize that you have rejoined the living and while a sudden memory can bring tears, you will also remember happy times, without that terrible sense of loss and the gratitude for that is almost as overwhelming as your current grief. Today the sadness of my Dad’s loss is heavy, but only yesterday I had a good laugh remembering something funny he said long ago that fit my current situation. Be assured that your father’s gifts of love and humor will always be with you. 
May 28, 2010 - 6:18 pm
Take your time. We’ll wait patiently. 
May 27, 2010 - 9:03 pm
With my love. 
May 27, 2010 - 9:44 am
Dear Robin, I wished I lived a bit closer to invite you around for a cup of tea and to give you a hug every time you need one. For now it will have to be a virtual one. 
May 27, 2010 - 8:53 am
One foot in front of the other, one day at a time, be gentle with yourself . . . . We are all out here still lifting you up and cheering you on. Deborah (also from the Crow workshop in case you haven’t guessed from the last message 
May 26, 2010 - 6:56 pm
Hang in there Robin. You sure have been in thoughts and prayers. 
May 26, 2010 - 3:06 pm
Hi Robin, it’s Jane from Nancy Crow. A technique that may open up communication with your Dad is to meditate. Picture him in your mind, picture him meeting who or whatever he/you believe in for the afterlife, picture him/them dissolving into light. Do this whenever you wish. It helped me. I wish you comfort. 
May 26, 2010 - 1:53 pm
Robin, I wish I could wrap you in a warm embrace and tell you that this too shall pass. You are on my mind and in my heart. Hugs. 
May 26, 2010 - 1:08 pm
Take your time. We’ll wait patiently. 
May 26, 2010 - 11:41 am
I remember when my mom died–a friend told me it would be a 2 steps forward, one backward type of thing. I’d feel a bit better and then something would remind me or i’d think of something i wanted to tell her–then I’d go backwards a little–but then it eased again. Just be gentle with yourself and allow herself to feel whatever it is you need to feel!  I’m getting through these days by keeping busy. As long as I have a task before me, I’m alright. My father was well prepared for his passing, but needless to say there is still much work to be done. To complicate things further, he lived on another island than I did, so I’m trying to... by robin 8 comments 
May 22, 2010 - 10:49 am
My deepest sympathies go out to you and your family. Having lost my father and a younger sister in the past few years I can relate to your sorrow. Know that he will always be in your heart and in your soul and spirit. I send you much love and courage to face the coming days. He must have been a very special man to have such a special daughter. 
May 20, 2010 - 2:17 pm
My deepest beliefs that I have are formed by my faith, my many experiences with the dying, and also with the tiny preemies. Yes, I believe with every fiber of my being that our loved ones who died are very aware of us and our thoughts and of our love. I haven’t really reached out to my mom since she died March 10, we knew for awhile her death was coming, Mother’s Day I did decide to ask for her to let me feel her presence, with a little bit of skepticism I am embarrassed to say. I cannot tell you how many times I have encouraged others to ask for a sign of presence from their loved ones… So not only once but twice that day her favorite song-the words and another time- the song, Amazing Grace was on the radio.
May 20, 2010 - 11:28 am
I believe he can hear you. I believe that loved one’s who transition from this world into another (for me that’s Heaven)are never far away. He hears you. Let you mind wander and wonder. Be prepared for a new normal. Remember that there are plenty of us out here cheering you on. 
May 20, 2010 - 6:50 am
I believe that we do go on in some form. What that may be, I don’t know. I’ve had experiences at the passing of family members that I can’t explain – only that they came to say goodbye and to let me know they’re still there. Even a beloved cat hung around for a little while letting me know she hadn’t moved on yet. Love is a bond that knows no boundaries. 
May 20, 2010 - 3:57 am
Robin, I’m so sorry for your loss.. I’ve been reading your posts for the last few days and it’s reminded me alot of when my mom passed. As much as you can be prepared, you’re never prepared. Your posts are beautiful. Take care of yourself and know that you’re in my thoughts… Sending lots of strength and warm, happy memories your way. 
May 20, 2010 - 2:43 am
Robin, 
May 20, 2010 - 2:12 am
When my father died, I wondered the same things as you. At some point, and I can’t remember when, I had a dream. It was so beautiful. He talked to me in that dream and I learned that he was happy and fine. I can’t say that it was a “vision” or some psychic phenomenon, but I did receive comfort. I guess that is all that mattered, that I was comforted and could move on a little. All the Best, 
May 19, 2010 - 8:46 pm
You will always have thoughts of him from time to time, that never passes. Thank goodness.  …in my yard… with my camera. Trusting in the power of nature, it was the only thing I could do with concentrated enthusiasm. The jacaranda really are beautiful this time of year… I’m telling myself I don’t want to miss that. I’m back now from visiting my father and his final resting place… convinced that... by robin 6 comments 
May 19, 2010 - 8:18 am
so sorry for your loss. 
May 18, 2010 - 3:17 pm
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May 18, 2010 - 8:12 am
Nature heals. Listen to and follow your heart and know that we are all here for you. 
May 18, 2010 - 5:17 am
So sorry for the loss of your dad. Grief is such a long journey- Much hugs and sympathy. 
May 18, 2010 - 4:03 am
Robin–I’m so sorry for your loss. Your tribute to your Dad was quite moving. Surround yourself with all the things that bring you comfort. You may not feel like sewing right now, but perhaps simply sitting in your studio will bring you some comfort. Talk to your children about their Grandfather. It will bring them comfort as well to keep his memory alive. All the best to you.
May 18, 2010 - 3:57 am
You are so much on my mind this week. I wish I could have walked with you. Just one foot in front of the other… |
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